Finally, 13 years ago, I realized that if anyone was going to build the place I dreamed of, it would have to be me. When I started working on Pink Sofa, I consulted with lesbians all over the world to find out what they valued in a community.
Since then I've been working to build a place for lesbians to meet, talk, learn about each other, and (with any luck! In their responses, I found 10 words that kept coming up again and again.
Your opening headshot is the most important photo you have - it must capture someone's attention instantly, and make them want to learn more.
After a series of terrible dates, Amy Web, 30, decided to get serious about her approach to dating online.
She realized her profile was clearly missing something to attract men.
As a contributor to Tom's Guide he's found a happy middle ground writing about apps, mobile gaming and other geekery.
Edward Royzman, a psychology professor at the University of Pennsylvania, asks me to list four qualities on a piece of paper: physical attractiveness, income, kindness, and fidelity.